Don't throw stones

If I complain about your complaining, am I just as bad?

If I'm against your negativity, what then?

Lunch with coworkers always devolves into ranting against students, their parents, and the administration.  I want to be social, and part of the team, but can't we be positive?  Especially in public?!  We are not victims.

I just need to keep changing the subject I guess.

gymkhana redeux

The rained out gymkhana was rescheduled for yesterday.  The weather was perfect, a little cool with no wind.  It was fun to see so many different kinds of horses and riders.  There were huge draft horses and a Fjord pony along with the usual quarter horses and warm bloods.  Very few of the riders had competitive speeds.  In fact, in the peewee division some horses were led by parents.

The next one is in two weeks.  Apparently the ranch runs them once a month.  Since it happens so often and many riders just trot through, there is no pressure to be great.  I think I'll try G in the barrels at the next one.

After the event was over and everyone went home, I took G to the arena and rode for a long time.  The barrels were still set up, so we rode the pattern.  Most of the time we walked and trotted it.  A few times we loped back after the last barrel.  He seems to have had experience with it, because he knew to go around the barrels with tight turns.  I wish he would keep his head up when he lopes, it feels like he's going to somersault!  Maybe the new saddle pad will help by getting the saddle off of his withers. His new saddle pad is in Chino now.  It should arrive before I ride again on Wednesday.  I'm very excited.

He has more energy than before.  He looks more alert, too.  It will be a month or more before any weight gain will show.

Windy Wednesday

The weather reports have been threatening historical winds to start yesterday evening and blow for many days.  I left school as soon as I could to ride before the wind hit.  It was gusty, but not more than the usual Santa Anas we get in the fall.  I rode a little before the gusts started making me too nervous.  I don't want a branch falling or rubbish blowing to spook G.  It was just breezy during the night.  I hope it is calm on Friday so I can ride more.

Good news, his teeth were floated in the last few days.  Horses' molars wear unevenly so they should be filed every year or so.  If their teeth are too uneven, they can't grind up their food enough.  Then when the fibrous hay hits their stomach, the nutrients aren't processed.  This may be one reason G is so thin even though he gets fed a normal amount.  He was wormed a few weeks ago, too.  Hopefully he'll start putting on some weight.

Other good news, I ordered a new saddle pad for him.  He has high withers and a bit of a sway to his back, so this pad will help get the saddle off his withers.  It was cheap to order and shipping was cheap, too.  Of course that means a long wait for it to arrive.

Today I need to pay for my December lease.  I'm beginning to think I should start a list of the costs of leasing in order to have an idea of what owning will cost.

So far:
lease $150 for Nov.
halter $25
saddle pad $26
reins $20ish
horse cookies $21
grooming tools $0 (gift)
floating teeth $0 (done by ranch)
worming $0 (done by ranch)

jumping in

My teeth hurt.  For many years I wished my teeth were less, shall we say bucky (that was Dr.P's phrase).  Then in my late teens to my early 30s I figured I would live with it.  I was attractive enough, it was silly vanity to want to do anything about my teeth.  Besides, I would look a lot worse with braces, right?

So now in my mid 40s I've decided if I want something I should seriously consider it.  Just waiting, rather than deciding means missing opportunity.  Or it may mean wishing for something that if I thought about it I'd realize I don't want.

So I decided to do something about my teeth.  It wasn't a quick decision.  I actually had to wait for months before I could set up the medical savings account.  It's very expensive.  Now I wonder what was I thinking.  It hurts, it's annoying, and it will hurt and be annoying for most of a year.  38 weeks - ok, 36 since I've already done 2.  It's almost as long as a pregnancy!

Maybe (ok not maybe) the horse thing is the same.  I've been working towards having a horse.  I'm having second thoughts about leasing G.  The stable is close, but it's so lonely.  I want to ride with my friends.

Horses for Thanksgiving week

It's been a busy week, busy with good things mostly.  I rode G on Wednesday morning.  It was a furlough day.  Menchi got to visit the horses.  He was very excited.  When I rode in the arena his barked and whined, but it wouldn't have been safe to let him off leash.  He would have gotten kicked because he doesn't know how to behave around horses.  I rode G enough to work up a sweat.  It was an hour with lots of trotting and some loping.  The arena was still heavy from the rain, so it was a real workout.

Michelle said she was going to worm G that afternoon.  I don't know how soon any difference could be seen.  She also talked about his teeth and feet, but no firm date on those.  

We went to Riverside and had a great Thanksgiving.  More on that in another entry.

We came home on Friday and I rode G again until he was sweaty.  I also lunged him a little.  I noticed his saddle really is sitting on his withers.  He has very high withers and is thin, so it isn't surprising.  I'm looking at saddle pads that might help.  I'm unwilling to spend too much money since he isn't mine and I don't plan on keeping my lease forever.

Saturday I had my lesson on Danny.  After riding G, I have a lot more confidence and respect for Danny.  It was a good lesson.  Lots of loping with lead changes.  Afterwards we went on a trail ride.  It was great weather, but a bit windy.  That meant 2 hours on Danny :-)  Then he was going to do another lesson.  He was probably tired after that!  I went hiking with Gary and Menchi at Placerita after the trail ride.  I was sure tired.

Today I go back to ride G.  I'm going to pay more attention to his saddle placement.  Maybe part of his lowering his head while loping is the saddle hurting his back.

gymkhana with rain

There was gymkhana scheduled for today at G's ranch.  Gary and I went to check it out, and I was hoping to meet more people.  Unfortunately it was raining.

The event started with pole bending.  Several kids in the peewee division were led.  A few rode it solo.  Then the adults and the rain started.  Several horses misbehaved.  One in particular bucked and reared, refusing to do the course.  Out of the arena the horse continued to act up.  It seemed a bit dangerous to me.  One girl was injured either once she was on her horse, or I think when she was mounting.  He was rearing quite a bit.  She thinks her ankle is broken.  I guess I'll hear about it later.

The gymkhana was called off after all of the pole bending was over.  They'll reschedule for the week after Thanksgiving.

I felt badly that I didn't spend any time with G.  I gave him some treats and pet him, but I didn't take him out of his stall at all.  Maybe in a few months I could try him in a gymkhana event.  It isn't terribly competitive.  Some people rode it fast, but many just were going through the course at a trot.

Good lesson

I had a lesson on G today.  It was more about me finding out what I should expect of him that teaching me new skills.  I feel much more positive about the whole thing now.  I rode him at a lope quite a bit.  Kept him at a trot  longer too.  Michelle was very encouraging about his progress physically.  I also lunged him a bit.  He did pretty well for Michelle, so I know how to do it now, and know he can do it.

All in all it was a very good $35 spent.

I'm very hopeful that I'll meet someone to trail ride with at the gymkhana on Sunday.

Tomorrow I ride Danny at Don E Brooks.